How Good Can I Allow Things to Be?

As a heart-centered entrepreneur, you started your business to create freedom, fulfillment, and impact. But let’s be honest—when things start going really well, do you ever find yourself doubting, pulling back, or waiting for the other shoe to drop?

You’re not alone. So many ambitious, soulful women unknowingly limit how much success, ease, and joy they allow in. You might call it self-sabotage, but in reality, it’s an upper limit problem—a subconscious comfort zone around how much good you believe you deserve.

But what if you stopped waiting for things to fall apart? What if, instead, you asked yourself:

💫 How good can I allow things to be?

Why Do We Resist Success & Ease?

Many of us are conditioned to believe that success must come with struggle. If things feel too easy, we assume we’re missing something. If we start earning more, we feel guilty. If we take time off, we feel like we should be working.

For heart-centered entrepreneurs, this often shows up as:
🔸 Undervaluing your work or undercharging for your offers
🔸 Overcomplicating things instead of allowing simplicity and flow
🔸 Procrastinating on big opportunities out of fear of visibility
🔸 Feeling like you have to do more before you’re “ready”

If any of this resonates, don’t worry—this isn’t about working harder to push past these blocks. It’s about expanding your capacity to receive more success, ease, and joy.

How to Expand Your Capacity for Good Things

1. Recognise Where You Resist Receiving

Pay attention to your reactions when things start going well. Do you:
❌ Downplay your success?
❌ Distract yourself when opportunities arise?
❌ Worry about what others will think if you “have too much”?

Awareness is the first step to breaking these patterns.

2. Rewire Your Mindset Around Success & Ease

Replace old beliefs with ones that support your growth. Try affirmations like:
🌿 I am worthy of ease, abundance, and success.
🌿 It’s safe for things to be easy.
🌿 The better it gets, the better it gets.

The more you allow yourself to believe success can be simple and joyful, the more it will be.

3. Make Decisions from Your Future Self

Who is the version of you that already has the business and life you desire? How does she think, act, and feel?

Start embodying her now:
✨ Price your offers with confidence
✨ Show up and share your message boldly
✨ Make aligned decisions instead of second-guessing yourself

4. Expand Your Nervous System’s Comfort Zone

If you’ve been conditioned to expect struggle, your body might resist ease. Practice:
💆‍♀️ Allowing yourself to relax without guilt
💸 Saying yes to money flowing in effortlessly
💖 Celebrating every win, no matter how small

This signals to your brain: it’s safe to receive more.

5. Ask Yourself Daily: How Good Can I Allow Things to Be?

Instead of waiting for things to go wrong, train your mind to expect more good. This simple shift changes everything.

It’s Time to Expand What’s Possible for You

Your next level of success isn’t about doing more. It’s about allowing yourself to receive more—without guilt, without fear, without self-sabotage.

So, take a deep breath and ask yourself:

✨ How good can I allow things to be? ✨

Then, let yourself find out.

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