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When Your Old Life No Longer Fits: Following the Nudge Toward What’s Next

June 02, 20254 min read

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✨ When Your Old Life No Longer Fits: Following the Nudge Toward What’s Next

There comes a moment — quiet, sometimes barely noticeable — when the life you’ve built starts to feel... off.

It might still look fine from the outside. You’ve done all the right things. Ticked the boxes. Played the roles. Showed up for everyone else. But inside? Something’s shifting. The path you’ve been walking no longer feels like home. And there’s a whisper — a nudge — saying,
“There’s more for you than this.”

You can’t quite name what “more” is yet.
It’s not about chasing something flashy.
It’s about meaning. Truth. Something that feels deeply yours.

You might be feeling like:

  • Your job is draining your soul

  • You’ve spent years looking after everyone else, and now wonder who you are without the roles

  • You've had a major life shift — divorce, grief, burnout — and now nothing feels the same

  • There’s a quiet sense of urgency in your chest, like your destiny is just out of reach... and you don’t want to miss it

This space between no longer and not yet?
It’s tender. Sacred.
It’s the beginning of your
awakening.


You’re Not Broken. You’re Evolving.

When your old life doesn’t fit anymore, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed.
It means you’re growing.
And growth often starts with discomfort.

You may feel like you’re walking blind. You’re trying to be brave. You want to take the next step — but you’re scared of getting it wrong. You’re afraid of failing. Of walking away from something certain in exchange for the unknown.

But what if not following the nudge is the bigger risk?


The Call of Your Soul

That quiet pull you feel is real.
It’s your soul trying to get your attention.
To remind you that you’re here for more than just existing — you’re here to
live.

To feel connected. On purpose. Lit up by what you do.

This is the part where so many women get stuck. We override our intuition. We tell ourselves it’s too late. That we should just be grateful. That it’s selfish to want more.

But wanting more — of the right things — is not selfish.
It’s sacred.


A Different Kind of Support

I created my work to hold space for women exactly like you — those on the edge of something new.
You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You just need to be willing to explore.

In my 1:1 coaching, we gently untangle what’s no longer serving you and begin building something that does.

We use tools like:

  • Human Design to uncover your unique energetic blueprint

  • Energy healing to clear emotional blocks and patterns keeping you stuck

  • Holistic coaching to align your outer world with your inner truth

You don’t need to leap tomorrow.
You just need to begin listening — and taking one soul-aligned step at a time.


🌿 Tips to Help You Begin

If you’re feeling the nudge but unsure how to move forward, here are some gentle ways to start reconnecting with your truth:

1. Create quiet space to listen
Even 5–10 minutes a day of stillness can help you hear what’s really going on inside. Journaling, walking, or simply sitting with your hand on your heart can reconnect you to that inner voice.

2. Notice what no longer feels aligned
What drains you? What roles or routines feel heavy, outdated, or false? Becoming aware is the first step toward change.

3. Honour the nudge
Instead of brushing it off, try asking it questions. Spend some time with the 'nudge'
What are you trying to show me? Where are you guiding me? 

4. Get curious about your Human Design
Learning how you’re wired to make decisions, work, and use your energy can help you drop the pressure of “shoulds” and start living in alignment.

5. Let yourself dream again
Make a “What if…” list. What if you could do anything? What if your life didn’t have to look the way it does now? Don’t judge — just explore.


Your Path Isn’t Gone — It’s Just Hidden Under the Noise

You’re not lost.
You’re in transition.
And that’s a powerful place to be.

Your soul knows the way — it’s just been waiting for you to stop long enough to hear it.

So if you’re feeling the nudge…
If you know there’s more, but fear is getting in the way…
If you want to reconnect with who you really are and create a life that feels
yours

You were never meant to miss your destiny.
You were just meant to wake up to it.

Louise is a holistic coach helping female entrepreneurs grow their business in alignment using energy healing, Human Design & mindset work.✨

Louise Howard

Louise is a holistic coach helping female entrepreneurs grow their business in alignment using energy healing, Human Design & mindset work.✨

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